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It is both exciting and frightening. On one hand, marriage gives us the opportunity to create a new life of love , connection, and adventure while on the other hand, it demands us to walk the same path with another person, despite all differences and incompatibilities that might occur in the relationship.
As challenging as it surely is, marriage is also a fun and exciting adventure when we marry the right person. Only when we are able to stay in love as time goes by and difficulties arise we show the true loving power of our hearts. To discover our loved one in a new, exciting light is the true joy of a loving, lasting relationship. Marriage needs more ingredients than just love, and friendship is one of them. A solid friendship between two lovers says more about their compatibility than a passionate, ardent love affair. A good wife encourages the husband to give his best to the relationship, so as a good husband motivates the wife to give her best to their marriage.
A good marriage is always a relationship of balance. Only when we give ourselves fully and completely to everything we do is when we can hope to achieve great things. Commitment and passion distinguish between an exciting life and a mediocre one, and the same is true for marriage and relationships.
As in many aspects of life, having faith is a crucial condition that allows for miracles to happen. Some people might see it as an obligation imposed by society. However, each marriage and each love are unique in their own ways. In the institution of marriage, each couple makes their own rules. The best thing about love is its power to demand so much from us, yet giving us so much at the same time.
Feeling loved and loving are both empowering. Through love, we are determined to be better, to do better. That is why when a marriage is successful, it becomes more fulfilling than any other type of relationship. Each couple creates their own rules, their own agenda of goals and dreams, and each has their own love language.
What may work in a marriage might not work in another. They are always there for us, talking, touching, sharing laughter and misfortunes, making plans, and keeping us company. This powerful connection makes every dull detail of daily life seem like an amazing occasion for love. Can they move past differences? Can they compromise? Can they see where the other is coming from? These are the questions that dictate the success of a marriage. As many moments they would spent together and as many conversations they would share, it is never enough.
They can find endless joy in discovering each other and in sharing their being with the other. Love achieves its highest, ultimate goal, when it is a mutual feeling that brings two people together in the most intimate and profound way.
In a happy marriage, love flourishes despite misunderstandings, conflicts, or hidden incompatibilities. When it comes to marriage however, it is best for our own well-being to choose a relationship that is less based on effort, and more based on the passionate need for the other. Their personalities became fluid, influencing each other while their goals and desires merge together.
The couple becomes a unity. It takes time and effort to find that special one, and it takes effort to sustain such a deep connection with serious commitment. Despite the difficulties, marriage can bring a unique set of gifts into our lives, which can hardly be found elsewhere. We cannot control our feelings, nor the circumstances and changes that life forces upon us. Marrying is very often a proof of courage and faith.
Our hope in love is what makes us human and our lives worthwhile. We forget that the most important thing for a happy marriage is finding the right person, and this is something we cannot control, as much as we would try. It is not be properly judged until the second glass. This is one of the reasons why a passionate love not supported by a solid compatibility can end up in an unsatisfying marriage. However, it takes a lot of time to be able to assess the success of a marriage. Just as a getting a new job, getting married has its own perks, but when managed right, can bring a lot of happiness and satisfaction.
Time is a key element in this equation. As we give more and more time to our loved one, the connection deepens and fortifies. We love and decide to invest in one another by engaging seriously through marriage. However, most couple confuse falling in love with loving. They marry without actually loving, but as time goes on, they finally meet love in its real form.
Despite often times being a gamble, marriage is still a worthy gamble. We cannot find what makes a good marriage, before actually marrying personally. As a learning experience, a marriage might fail. However, this should not make lose our faith in marriage nor in love.
To be able to balance all these differences successfully means creating a mutually beneficial and rewarding partnership of love. Having a sense of humor can work wonders in case of misunderstanding or conflict and it can create a bond through shared laughter. We cannot be mad for too long on the person who makes us laugh. Two people who love each other will grow together and will learn to be the best for the other. Being in love changed me. An official document does not necessarily make the feelings for each other better or stronger. Love is the only state that changes us, takes us from our comfort zone to a new life.
Marriage just settles the deal. Trust is a prerequisite for marriage, but marriage also creates trust on its own. Having complete trust in the other and offering our full trust in return is a beautiful, unique thing and the most important measure of a happy marriage. It is not enough to have only one put all their efforts into the marriage.
If it is not a mutual commitment, marriage loses both its purpose and its beauty. The 31 Most Powerful Spiritual Quotes. The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret. A good husband makes a good wife. You may also like. Pin It on Pinterest.Friend and lover married to
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